Interpretation Book

 

 

 

It's really sad, but also really common, most relationships end simply because the couple didn't know how to tell each other how they felt.  They made every little problem sound like a criticism of their spouse and eventually they just couldn't take it anymore, there was more resentment than love, and the marriage was over.  It's only after the dust has settled that many people realize they made  a mistake.  If this describes you and you want to know how you can

get your ex wife back, there are some things that can help. The Pleasure Of Reuniting (get Your Ex Back)

 

Many men also think once things have gotten this far that it's hopeless, but that's just not true.  There is always hope that your ex will have had time to think about things too and will come to the same conclusion you have, that she wants to try to work things out. The only way you'll know for sure is if you ask her.

 

Before you do that though, there is one very important thing you need to do first: honestly assess what your part was in the failure of the marriage and if you're honestly willing to invest the time and effort into changing your bad traits. This isn't easy to do since before you can change you have to admit what you did wrong.  No one likes facing up to their faults, but if you want to improve the person you are, you'll have to take this step.

 

Once you've completed this step and you have a clearer picture of who you are and what part you played, both good and bad, in your marriage you should contact your ex.

 

Up until this point any contact you have had with your ex should have been minimal and civil.  If you've been fighting with or badgering your ex the whole time she won't be happy to hear from you, so make sure when you're going through the self improvement step that you have little contact with your ex, give her time to miss you.

 

If you've followed this rule your ex will probably be happy to hear from you and now is the time for the rubber to hit the road: you tell her you still love her and that you've made some changes and that you want to give your marriage another try.  She will either say she feels the same way, or she will say 'sorry, not interested'

 

Of course if she says she feels the same way you'll be good to go.  But if she says she's not interested, you'll have your first chance to put the new improved you to the test.  Don't get mad, threaten, harass, or beg.  Even though it may be the hardest thing you've ever had to do, suck it up, tell her you understand and that you hope she'll be happy and say goodbye.  It's over and there is nothing more you can do.

 

Whether things work out the way you want them to or not, just remember that there are a lot of valuable resources that can help steer you through this extremely challenging time. Put them to use for you.

 

Of course there is no guarantee that you will be able to get your ex wife back. But you might be surprised how often this advice and other good advice has worked.  The bottom line is this: if you still care about your ex and you genuinely feel that the two of you could make it work, then go for it.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  Good luck!